Bethea's Byte

News. Debates. Opinions. YOUR VOICE!

Welcome to Bethea's Byte. | Here is the place you can talk about the topics of the day, have respectful debates, or just air your thoughts and concerns that concern you. || Site Announcements: | 1. This October is Cancer Awareness month. | The Site logo has went from the traditional Blue and Red to Purple (Amethyst) and Pink (French Rose). || 2. If you are someone you know and love who has battled cancer bravely | Whether they are "warriors" still fighting | "Survivors" who beat the disease, | Or those who have gone home to glory | I want you to share that story in YouByte. | I look forward to reading these stories. || BYTE THIS!

    Need to vent

    Share

    Amulet1
    Member
    Member

    Male Posts : 84
    Age : 53
    Join date : 2018-06-18
    Status :

    Need to vent

    Post by Amulet1 on Tue Jul 31, 2018 12:11 am

    My wife found out today a relative of hers passed away over the weekend so she called her mother to let her know about it. My wife and her mother are not getting along right now for things that have been said and done. My wife has had some serious health issues last fall and was finally got the right treatment. Her mother a few weeks ago asked my wife to get her 10 cases of water. The 30 pack ones. Walmart only had seven so she got them and took them over to her mothers place and had to carry them all inside by herself. The next day my wife started hurting pretty bad in her stomach area. We made a dr appointment and he said she could have a hernia due to her carrying all those water into her house.

    So tonight when my wife called her mom about the death she told her mom about the hernia. Her mother then said good you deserve to get hurtand that she doesnt believe she even went to the doctor. The fight was on. My wife ended up hanging up on her mom but she called back. My wife didnt answer the phone so her mom left her a voice message telling her that she was a mistake and that she shouldnt have been born and wishes she had a abortion.

    Who in her right mind would ever say those things to her daughter? My wife is so upset about this. I have never seen my wife this upset before. I am royaly pissed and I want to go knock my wife's mother out.



    Thanks for letting me vent.


    Kyng
    Member
    Member

    Posts : 92
    Join date : 2018-05-30
    Status :

    Re: Need to vent

    Post by Kyng on Wed Aug 01, 2018 11:15 am

    Gosh, what a horrific thing to say to anybody, let alone a daughter :'( .

    My heart goes out to your wife during what is obviously a very tough time for her.
    avatar
    queenzelda
    Member
    Member

    Female Posts : 70
    Join date : 2018-05-28
    Location : In 'merica
    Status :

    Re: Need to vent

    Post by queenzelda on Mon Aug 06, 2018 10:32 am

    I feel her pain. My mom said those same words to me before; "I wish you were never born." It hurt, but I think she did it because she was in pain herself. I think the same can be said for her mother. I don't know what our mom's problems are, but I've worked through some problems I've had with mine. Sounds to me like her mom is just outright mean cause she's a b*tch. Idk if she'd be up for talking to her about getting help, but it might be a good idea to think about in the future. Good luck.


    _________________


     
    avatar
    The Last Outlaw
    Head Administrator
    Head Administrator

    Male Posts : 376
    Age : 42
    Join date : 2018-05-25
    Location : Salem, Oregon, USA
    Status :

    Re: Need to vent

    Post by The Last Outlaw on Mon Aug 06, 2018 10:41 am

    I couldn't live with myself if I ever talked to my child the way your wife's mother talked to her. That is nothing short of cruel, and therefore, gets my classic "Worst Persons" award for being such a cruel human being to her child.

    Whether a baby or a full grown adult, no one deserves that kind of treatment from someone who supposedly loves them. That kind of pain leaves scars, and those scars last a lifetime if one lets it linger.

    Just saying.

    Sent from Topic'it App


    _________________

    Sponsored content

    Re: Need to vent

    Post by Sponsored content


      Current date/time is Tue Oct 16, 2018 3:31 pm